#BeingFemaleInNigeria: book club ignites everyday sexism debate

Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie’s 58-page feminist pamphlet provided the inspiration for a women’s rights debate. Brittle Paper reports

Inspired by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie’s feminist pamphlet, a small Abuja-based book club has ignited a conversation across Nigeria about everday sexism.

It all started at a meeting of the club in the capital, led by Florence Warmate. The group of 15 women and men were discussing Adichie’s 2014 pocket-sized book: We Should All Be Feminists.

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But Madam, what did you do for your husband to beat you like this? Why did you provoke him? #BeingFemaleInNigeria

#BeingFemaleInNigeria your husband slapped you? Sorry. What did you say to make him angry? Go and beg.

Having to remind people that the Bible makes man 'head of the HOME' Not office, not classroom and def not Lagos roads. #BeingFemaleInNigeria

Reading #BeingFemaleInNigeria & I just want to cry! I will always blame religion (mostly) for this view that women are to serve men.

#BeingFemaleInNigeria If you get pregnant before marriage, you're useless. If you don't get pregnant after marriage, you're useless.

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Feminism is the answer. As Chimamanda said, "we should all be feminists" #BeingFemaleInNigeria

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